Swatches not aplying to any settings i change or set

I don’t get why but i tinkered around and nothing seems to be as advertised.

I set everything so that it is shown on product list, i try horizontally instead of vertically and tried many ther settings.

Can someone please look at my website. Maybe i am missing something but it is frustrating even though i selected everything to be shown it is only on the product page itself and not on the list (as advertised).

If someone can point me to a documentation or video for putting the correct setting please show me cos after one hour i still don’t see the changes.

http://www.harborofmen.com